In Panchatantra, there is a story of a frog who lives in a well. Its entire world is limited to the well. It does not know anything beyond the well. When another frog falls down into the well one day, our friend comes to know about another whole universe beyond the well.
We all are that frog, though we may not be so ignorant about the whole world. But we all do operate from within our limitations. There are boundaries to our world. We live within those four walls. No one is perfect in every way. That includes me.
I too am bound by my mental boundaries. Today I shall share with you four corners of my world.
- I will go ahead and admit it: I am a lazy person! I will postpone something till it can no longer be postponed! I would love to curl up with a good book and expect meals at the right times to be delivered to me. But alas! I am a mother, so meals are expected to the delivered by me to others! (Sigh!)
- I am not a risk taker. I am very happy in my comfort zone. Sheldon (from the sitcom the big bang theory) in one episode responds to a comment that he does not get out of his comfort zone saying “Why should I? It is called comfort zone for a reason!”
That is a dialogue after my philosophy in life. 😀
There are so many people who do so many great things life bungee jumping, climbing the Everest and such. I admire them and applaud them from the sidelines. I would not want to risk such ventures. The only “brave” thing I have done in my life is go in one of those crazy rides that hang you upside down. I count that as my one risk so far. I wouldn’t do it now at all! No, sir. - My daughters will tell you that I am a worrier. Not that I worry all the time for everything, but sometimes I do worry for tiny things. I know this trait of mine will affect my health. So this is one boundary that I want to get over.
- I loathe self-help books, positively detest them. I can never EVER finish a self-help book. In fact, even a couple of chapters is a big bore for me. I can never understand these books. “Do this, and your problem is solved.“. “This method will help you sell stuff“. “We guarantee that this will help you get friends“, these books scream. I disagree. How can there be a ram-baan idea for every issue?
I am always happy with my own opinion
Written for the July BarAThon 2018.
Today’s prompt is : Four corners of the world
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Hundred percent correct. I have often heard of people saying that they like challenges and like to be pushed and so on. But I wonder if that kind of thing is really welcomed by anyone. Life after all is meant to be enjoyed and that can happen only if you are within your comfort zone in any work.
Here is my Barathon 4th day post
http://www.jaispoetryblog.com/2018/07/four-corners-of-world.html
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Thank you Jai, glad you agree with me!
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I am not a risk taker either. I would rather stay in my comfort zone and observe the world go by. In fact any change makes me anxious
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I am open to change but not too much change. Does that make sense? 😀
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Absolutely!!
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wonderful story.. always heard same well same frog..
#Barathon 2018
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Thank you simi!
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I am a 100% with you on the self help books and the comfort zone! Its definitely called that for a reason 😉
Go with what works for you and work from thereon Meena!
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Thats true. What works for one person may not for others. To each his own
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I think I believe in the dictum—To each his own. So, I know some risks are meant for others and some I go for. Totally relate why some people never move from their comfort zones. I like to, though! The frog in the well is one of my fav stories, that i always tell my trainees.
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Thanks esha
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Agree with you on all the four points. 🙂
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You do? Thanks! 😀😀
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Honest feelings meena. I really love your comfort zone. It is always ok to be ourselves. So are u.. Enjoy the life😁😁
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Thank you deepa!
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I am good with some risks and not good with some. So I am mid way I guess. Whatever works 🙂
I am also lazy and I delegate as much as possible. Curling up with a book is any day better 🙂
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Good for you for taking risks! Glad you liked it
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This was a fantastic post, Meena. I loved how you’ve interpreted the prompt to bring out facets of your life. Nicely done.
PS: Big yay for Sheldon! Bazinga 😀
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Thanks varad!
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This post was such a fun read. I loved your attitude. I get the lazy curling up part. Me too! Oh! and I dig Sheldon’s words:) I would love to go on adventures like scuba diving or snorkelling but I find taking risks in real life situations very difficult. “Fear of failure” I call it.
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I am afraid to try such sports. Forget failure, even attempting is scary! Thanks namratha!
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Very well-written, Meena! And of course, you’re totally right about self-help books! I NEVER touch one, if I can help it!
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😀
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