“Do you think Cinderella really forgave her stepsisters and stepmother, Daadi?” little Sruthi asked.
“Yes, she did” I told my little granddaughter with conviction. I tucked her to sleep, gave her a kiss and switched off the light.
As I walked away, the question haunted me.
Does forgiveness come that easily? Did not Cinderella resent even a little bit for all the horrible things said and done to her? Is it that simple?
Have I forgiven my husband? Can I ever forget that day when Rajiv left me with nothing and broke my trust and went away with his girl friend?
I carried that resentment for a long time in my heart even as I became a single mother to Sruthi’s father, my only son Srikanth. Those days of struggle haunt me sometimes even today.
I remember the day as clear as yesterday when Rajiv came to visit us on Srikanth’s 18th birthday. None of us were expecting him. How can Rajiv claim any right to be a father and come now after all the struggle is over and Srikanth is an adult?
Without my knowledge, Srikanth had kept in touch with his father. I was furious. How can Srikanth do this to me, I thought. Did I not sacrifice my whole life to make sure Sri was taken care of? Did I not make sure Sri’s education was the best? Did I not do this all by myself?
After the party, Srikanth took my hand in his and said, “Ma, you know I love you. You have been there with me through thick and thin. I cannot imagine my life without you. I am aware of all the hardships you have been through all these years. I have been with you through them and we both are out of the woods now.
Please don’t misunderstand me Ma, your resentment towards Dad has soured you from inside. It has made you a victim of sorts. Why do you give your resentment so much power over you that you can’t enjoy your successes? You have achieved so much in life after Dad went away. And all that on your own capabilities.
This feeling inside you is eating you alive. Please let it go. It has been 17 years now. There is so much to look forward to. Dad is a part of my life, because I want him in mine. I will not make him a part of yours, if you don’t want to.
It is time to let go, Ma.”
I realised I had no right to keep a son away from a father. After that I had tried hard. It was tough to let go. But now after Sruthi was born, I feel much more at peace.
So, yeah, forgiveness is tough and takes a lot of work.
I’m writing bravely for Write Tribe festival of Words of March 2019
Today’s prompt being ‘Forgive’.
Read other awesome entries here.
Good one
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Thank you so much.
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Beautiful story, Meena! Yes, forgivenes is the biggest gift one can give to oneself and others. It makes you live again.
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Thanks Anshu. Yes, once you can forgive you can live again.
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It is not easy to forgive when you have had to struggle so much. Nice take Meena
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Thanks bhagyashree!
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Forgiveness is tough indeed.
Sri is so level-headed. I like the fact that we decide to keep whom we want in our lives That’s empowering.
100 Words Fiction- Please Forgive Me – Anita
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Thanks Anitha. Yes forgiveness takes time
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Such a beautiful and refreshing point of view on forgiveness.
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Thank you Shashi
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Good story with a beautiful message.
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Thanks so much amarjeet
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Good one! My take is you dont need to forgive to live your life. If you can just accept what the other person did is wrong but be without grudge or resentment, thats more than enough.
Let forgiveness come whenever it chooses to come😉
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Thats very true Shaini. Sometimes it is hard to forget but to move on is important.
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Hello Meena… happy to connect after a long time with you.
Forgiving dies liberate but to arrive at the point where one can forgive is not easy to come by. Its a struggle in itself.
Loved this story of struggle and triumph, of self awakening!
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Thanks Anagha for liking. Yes, I have been away from blogging from a few months now. I am back again. Hope you are coming on A2Z again.
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It is not easy to forgive someone who is very close and needs a tremendous amount of self-introspection and courage. Nice story.
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Thank rohan. What you say is true.
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Forgiving does not come easy . a heart wrenching story of a brave lady. it is good she found peace after shruti was born.
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Thanks kalpana.
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Agree with Srikanth. Letting go of the past hurts and pains is the way forward. It’s easier said than done, but it is something that has to be done for one’s sanity and peace of mind. Wonderful story, Meena.
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Thank you Shilpa for liking.
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Awww Meena.. this is such a beautiful post..the story is simple yet ot tucks to your heart.
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Thanks Balaka! 😀
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Even if one may forgive, it’s neither possible nor desirable to forget, in my opinion, lest we become victims yet again.
Nice story, Meena!
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Yes, it is not possible to forget. But, to let go and move on is an option.
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Yes, as I mentioned in my second comment below.
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Also wanted to say that putting aside the question of forgiveness and all, it’s most important to move on in life…not letting circumstances overwhelm us so much that we forget our worth.
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Forgiveness is the toughest thing for sure. But I have experienced this myself. Once you forgive, slowly time heals the wound and we end up forgetting too. The pain then remains only as a memory.
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Thanks for liking. Yes, I agree!
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